When I had my first miscarriage in September 2020 after 10 years of infertility (no pregnancies until then), I was absolutely devastated. I would talk to people and felt like no one understood. No one offered support like they do when you go to hospital for any other medical condition. No one brought me flowers, chocolates or grapes. I had an horrific experience in the hospital, physically and emotionally, which I still struggle with today. When I came across the Sweet Peanuts organisation, I wasn’t sure if I “qualified” for a care pack. I wasn’t sure if my miscarriage was “far enough along” to be considered a devastating loss. I was only 8 weeks pregnant. But I was devastated. When I was contacted by Sweet Peanuts and offered a care pack, which was personally delivered to my front door, I was overwhelmed, positively, with the care and understanding shown. I absolutely loved the items in the pack and it felt like each item had been carefully and thoughtfully chosen. When I doubt my own feelings or wonder if I should just “get over it”, I look back at my stuffed elephant toy, hold it and hug it, and I feel worthy. Worthy of my feelings being acceptable, worthy or my grief being real and worthy of being allowed to suffer alongside people who truly care. If I knew other women in my position, I would definitely refer them for a care package. I sincerely hope that Sweet Peanuts is able to grow as an organisation in order to provide more women, men, families and others with the practical and emotional support that’s needed during one of the most difficult experiences a person can go through.